One thing you can do is write a list on what people compliment you on, even if you think its your worst fixture. Like for me people always compliment mu hair even if I hate it. They also compliment my eyes when I'm not wearing glasses because they are so much bigger without my glasses, my smile because i have braces and I hate it, and believe it or not my curves, my aunts always compliment me on those.
Also, it doesn't matter whats on the outside, this goes for the guys too, its what is on the inside. Your personality is the only thing that matters. Sometimes, I forget this rule,too. Even if you are the nicest person in school that's not enough, I feel like for me it's not enough. I try to make people like me by wearing a ton of make up, that is not what your suppose to do and it's not going to work. What you could do if you don't want to be mean but try to have some confidence, try to get out of your comfort zone. You can be funny, or even if you are a geek/nerd like me embrace it because you probably will be a better off in the real world.
To stay confident I like to imagine my future living in a big house, being a forensic scientist, and still helping you guys. Also. I imagine me having a husband, that is a detective and about to be recruited by the FBI. I have 4 kids and two of them are twins. So I stay confident by thinking about my future.
I have a YouTube with my cousin and that has helped me stay confident.I hate the way I look and my voice but that doesn't really matter.
Back to my glasses, if you don't like how you look with glasses and have to wear them like me, ask your parents for contacts. My own parents even liked how I looked with out glasses. I needed contacts for volleyball too, because I would stink with my glasses.
Pretty much to stay confident be yourself. I'm more confident when I'm myself.
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